I heard and interesting statement the other day that was geared towards young adults and missions. The statement was "hope to go, but plan to stay". The concept is quit true even in the realm that I saw while youth pastoring. An individual feels a call and a drawing to do something significant for God on the mission field. They have hopes and aspirations of greatness. They dream big dreams for God. They might even see a face in a prayer time. The burden for a specific people group might even might even be on their heart. In their young years they have "hopes", "dreams", and "a reckless abandonment" to do something for God.
This is what happens.... People who end up doing something for God overseas intentionally make efforts and plans though the coarse of their life to match up with their dreams. A missionary is going to be intentional about schooling, and not be careless with financial matters. A person makes career decisions in a multitude of ways. A lot of debt will keep someone from becoming a missionary. Often times someone will choose a car over the mission field without even knowing it.... They might hope to go somewhere someday, but all of their plans will point towards staying home for a lifetime.
There is nothing wrong with not being a missionary, but if you have hopes to go, you better plan to go..... I recently had a conversation with someone who graduated Bible school with a degree to do missions. However, debt and poor planning have landed him in a good career, Yet, this is not his hearts desire... He hoped to go, but planned to stay. I am in the process of getting him where he belongs....